Monthly Archives: February 2024

What February Means To Me

I’m sure we all think about the same thing when thinking about February. Obviously, my birthday. No? Well, we’ll get to that other day of the month a bit later. I really don’t get the concept of celebrating birthdays. I think all we’re really saying with our birthday greetings is “Congratulations, you’re not dead.” I honestly hate all the attention that comes from simply being born, but I’m not too proud to confess that I love receiving gifts. I’m certainly not a fan of having a February birthday since it’s relatively so close to Christmas. That means my annual gift receiving days are all over within a two month span.

If I had to be born in February, I wish it could’ve been on a leap year day. I’d only have to deal with the hubbub of my birthday every four years – and I’d be a lot younger! However, then I’d only receive a quarter of the gifts that I am used to, and that would be devastating. I guess I’ll have to reconsider. I understand my situation could be much worse; I pity those who have a December birthday, especially if it’s on Christmas Day. I can’t even imagine trying to compete with Santa Claus AND Jesus. I would much rather compete with the chubby cherub who makes an appearance every February 14th.

Valentine’s Day is probably what most of you were actually thinking about when considering the month of February. I don’t mind “the day of romance” because it’s not just about me. (My heart goes out to those who aren’t in a relationship, but would like to be, during this time of year.) Because I do have a significant other, I’m prompted each year to remind my wife how much she means to me. It genuinely takes the missus and I two days to celebrate Valentine’s Day: cards, presents, and a nice dinner and dessert at home on the 14th, and a nice dinner out on either the 13th or the 15th. We choose to not deal with the crowds and inflated prices of February the 14th. We’re cheap … I mean frugal … I mean good stewards of our finances.

Lastly, I assume Groundhog Day is just an afterthought to most people when pondering the month of February. But Punxsutawney Phil’s special day is somewhat relevant in our household. As tradition dictates, the missus and I watch the Bill Murray rom-com, Groundhog Day, every February 2nd. As tradition dictates, the missus and I watch the Bill Murray rom-com, Groundhog Day, every February 2nd. Get it? If not, watch the movie! So, this is what February means to me. What does February mean to you?


What January Means To Me

January is a time for new beginnings and a fresh outlook on life. Not really! January, more accurately, is a time for broken resolutions, continued procrastination, and ultimately defeat. People commonly use the first day of the first month of a brand new year to fool themselves into thinking they can somehow change something about their behavior they’ve been holding on to the previous 364 days. I myself have not been entirely immune to that way of thinking.

For example, late last year I made the decision to unretire my blog this January, after about a 29 month hiatus. But here we are – it is already February – and much closer to the end of the month than the beginning, I might add. Better late than never? Or just another New Year’s failure? I rarely make New Year’s resolutions, unless of course you count my annual go-to resolve of continuing to be the same humble, awesome person that I am. Admittedly, I was gung-ho once when resolving to do daily sit-ups beginning January 1st of 2021. Oh well, maybe next year.

January is also probably my least favorite month of the year due to the sadness it brings into my life. I’m sad because Christmas is now truly over. I’m really sad that the Fantasy Football season is over. And in real football I’m often sad about which teams are headed to the Super Bowl. Rooting for the underdog is imbedded in my being. I have an Underdog tattoo (also imbedded) as proof.

Therefore, a Texans/Lions matchup in Super Bowl 58 would’ve been much more to my liking. But those two playoff teams ended their seasons in defeat much like those who have ever made a New Year’s resolution. So, this is what January means to me. What does January mean to you?